{"id":3633,"date":"2023-10-21T16:05:48","date_gmt":"2023-10-21T16:05:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/?p=3633"},"modified":"2023-10-21T16:21:01","modified_gmt":"2023-10-21T16:21:01","slug":"pasiv-agresivitatea-o-capcana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/?p=3633","title":{"rendered":"Pasiv-agresivitatea &#8211; o capcan\u0103\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pasiv-agresivitatea este o form\u0103 de comunicare ce poate fi destul de u\u0219or recunoscut\u0103: exist\u0103 o discrepan\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre ceea ce spune \u0219i ceea ce inten\u021bioneaz\u0103 s\u0103 spun\u0103 interlocutorul t\u0103u. O \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti sub forma ironiilor, glumelor r\u0103ut\u0103cioase, sarcasmului.Venind deghizat\u0103 sub masca aceasta comic\u0103, calm\u0103, deta\u0219at\u0103, pasiv-agresivitatea este greu de contracarat pentru c\u0103 nu-i po\u021bi imputa nimic celui ce o folose\u0219te, nu ai de ce s\u0103 te ag\u0103\u021bi concret pentru a riposta. Iar dac\u0103 \u00eencerci, vei primi adesea replica \u201cera o simpl\u0103 glum\u0103, care-i problema, \u021bi-am facut ceva?\u201d sau \u201cera o glum\u0103, e\u0219ti cam sensibil\u2026\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De aici \u0219i perversitatea ei: la suprafa\u021b\u0103 poate trece drept inofensiv\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 mesajul de dedesubt este critic, \u021bi se repro\u0219eaz\u0103 ceva, te face s\u0103 te sim\u021bi vinovat! Spun c\u0103 este pervers\u0103 pentru c\u0103 pasiv-agresivul nu e cu \u201carmele pe mas\u0103\u201d cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een comunicarea agresiv\u0103. Acolo m\u0103car \u0219tii cu ce e\u0219ti atacat, cu alte cuvinte, lupta e declarat\u0103, deschis\u0103, vizibil\u0103 (celalalt te acuz\u0103 de ceva anume) astfel, d\u00e2ndu-\u021bi ocazia s\u0103 alegi cum s\u0103 ripostezi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Comunicarea pasiv-agresiv\u0103 este foarte des utilizat\u0103 \u00een cadrul familiei, fie ea de origine, fie ea de nucleu (\u00een urma c\u0103s\u0103toriei). Cel ce o \u00eentrebuin\u021beaz\u0103 simte furie, frustrare \u0219i nevoia de te blama, \u00eens\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0219i poate asuma responsabilitatea pentru asta. Nu vrea s\u0103 suporte consecin\u021bele ci s\u0103 scape de confruntarea cu tine. Iar tu cazi \u00een aceast\u0103 capcan\u0103 \u0219i e\u0219ti blocat: nu ai ce s\u0103 zici \u00een fa\u021ba ironiei, nu \u021bi-e clar ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 (nu ai primit \u021bipete, jigniri, acuze), \u00eens\u0103 te sim\u021bi vinovat \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi gestionezi starea.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pasiv-agresivitatea este o form\u0103 de comunicare ce poate fi destul de u\u0219or recunoscut\u0103: exist\u0103 o discrepan\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre ceea ce spune \u0219i ceea ce inten\u021bioneaz\u0103 s\u0103 spun\u0103 interlocutorul t\u0103u. O \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti sub forma ironiilor, glumelor r\u0103ut\u0103cioase, sarcasmului.Venind deghizat\u0103 sub masca aceasta comic\u0103, calm\u0103, deta\u0219at\u0103, pasiv-agresivitatea este greu de contracarat pentru c\u0103 nu-i po\u021bi imputa nimic celui [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_eb_attr":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[309],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3633","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3633","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3633"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3633\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3636,"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3633\/revisions\/3636"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3633"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3633"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andraghinea.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3633"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}